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What qualities does Blimix look for in a mate?
I have found my mate. The following, which I wrote long before I had ever
met her, has turned out to be correct in every particular. This pleases me.
The woman I am looking for is sincere, intelligent, and reasonable. She is
philosophically compatible with me. (That does not mean identical.) She
will display strength, tenderness, patience, an intense self-understanding,
the ability to put up with my humor, and a great capacity for love. She is a
close, intimate person. She would not feel smothered by my showering her
with affection, will never tire of my expressions of love, but rather will
appreciate and return them. She loves cuddling. She will cherish me, but
have the confidence and independence to not let her personality be
overshadowed by mine. She is skilled at persuasion. She does not feel a
need to talk all the time, for she appreciates a long, comfortable silence.
She will sometimes beat me at my own games.
I will be sharing my life with my mate; she will share at least some of my
interests, and have some that are new to me. She will be completely open
and honest with me. She does not depend upon the approval of society. She
does not let television interfere with better things. She will cuddle with
me when I am at the computer. She listens well, and communicates well. She
is tremendously considerate of people's feelings, and of the consequences of
her actions. She will know me well enough to understand that "I would
do anything for you" is not just words.
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